So while planning to move to minneapolis, neither Jay nor I thought of possibly asking the school to send us the list of needed items as a "just in case" list if he should've been able to get in down there.... yet now that we have it - JAY thinks he has to have every last item on that list as in RIGHT NOW! And that is not the case in my opinion...
We have probably about 25% of the list as we had slowly bought some of it already or had some of it, some things on the list aren't exactly necessary to have right away or even at all. And yet! He has it in his head that we have to now buy all this stuff as soon as we get down there.
*pulling hairs out* Frustrating MAN!
*calms*
Yet --- I am in awe at how calm I have been throughout this upcoming thought of change. Jay not being there to watch the kids, possibility of having to have kids at work with me 2fold --- trusting my oldest to behave during those times.... not to mention the house work, the shopping trips (which mind you may sound easier if I do while kids are in school BUT having the extra hands to bring in bags and put stuff away is always nice too)... and then there are the dr appts, the upcoming jury duty I may have to serve on at the end of april... god forbid if that ends up going longer than the three days it is scheduled, though it seems up here the whole thing is settled before it comes to trial anyways...
I don't fret over homework for the boys, they are usually actually pretty good about that - chores on the other hand... hence more housework for moi... I have to become that cleany mom I can't stand but yet to not risk having my kids taken away because of some snoopy idiot which will and can always happen.
I won't go into that subject - it pisses me off more than reason and I am TRYING to stay calm.
well - i suppose i should go back to work... it's boring tonight... had a few customers but because some dinks haven't returned theirs its hard to get people to rent anything they already watched.
We have probably about 25% of the list as we had slowly bought some of it already or had some of it, some things on the list aren't exactly necessary to have right away or even at all. And yet! He has it in his head that we have to now buy all this stuff as soon as we get down there.
*pulling hairs out* Frustrating MAN!
*calms*
Yet --- I am in awe at how calm I have been throughout this upcoming thought of change. Jay not being there to watch the kids, possibility of having to have kids at work with me 2fold --- trusting my oldest to behave during those times.... not to mention the house work, the shopping trips (which mind you may sound easier if I do while kids are in school BUT having the extra hands to bring in bags and put stuff away is always nice too)... and then there are the dr appts, the upcoming jury duty I may have to serve on at the end of april... god forbid if that ends up going longer than the three days it is scheduled, though it seems up here the whole thing is settled before it comes to trial anyways...
I don't fret over homework for the boys, they are usually actually pretty good about that - chores on the other hand... hence more housework for moi... I have to become that cleany mom I can't stand but yet to not risk having my kids taken away because of some snoopy idiot which will and can always happen.
I won't go into that subject - it pisses me off more than reason and I am TRYING to stay calm.
well - i suppose i should go back to work... it's boring tonight... had a few customers but because some dinks haven't returned theirs its hard to get people to rent anything they already watched.